![]() 06/22/2016 at 18:26 • Filed to: those minorities get all the breaks | ![]() | ![]() |
I had a coworker come up to be and start complaining that they don’t make any “straight pride” shirts. I asked him if it was because he really had nothing to be proud of.
He then goes on a tangent about how he’s tired of “the gayness” being “shoved down everyone’s throats.” He said nobody talked about this 40 years ago (40 years ago... when women couldn’t buy real estate in the state of Oregon, schools were still desegregating, and gay people hid in the darkness? Cool). This person is younger than me, and for whatever, hates HATES hates gay people. Which I’ve told him about a dozen times, is just fine. You do you.
Just don’t shove it down my throat.
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Drag racers are literally the worst
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Lots of things are wrong with lots of people.
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I lived in Dupont Circle during law school, and the gay people living there made that neighborhood faaaabulous! Plus, the only relationship I ever saved that went on long term (I talked to them both) was two guys. My straight relationships? I saved none but one.
![]() 06/22/2016 at 18:39 |
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More specifically about marriage equality, but still apropos:
Sounds to me like you co-worker is probably the latter of the two.
![]() 06/22/2016 at 18:39 |
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I knew a couple of gay people in high school. They were the coolest people ever!
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I dunno, drag events are pretty awesome.
![]() 06/22/2016 at 18:41 |
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I’m not upset that he doesn’t like so and so or whatits. It’s just always concerning when people go out of their and bring up stuff like that. On the clock, while I’m actually working, and to break the silence: “THOSE GODDAMN GAYS.” He also made a comment about the Orlando shooting which I won’t repeat... because you can guess.
![]() 06/22/2016 at 18:41 |
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Yeeeah, let’s continue perpetuating the privileged white guy stereotype. Nooo, as a brown, bearded minority, I don’t want the ideals of the rich white male shoved down my throat.
![]() 06/22/2016 at 18:41 |
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Just like in every group, there are those that do try to shove their views down your throats. That type of stuff ignores race, religion, nationality, or political stance. But seriously, it’s not that big of an issue.
![]() 06/22/2016 at 18:42 |
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Sounds like they forgot that people are people, it’s a pretty common mistake.
![]() 06/22/2016 at 18:43 |
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What’s not that big of an issue
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Honestly, studies have shown that he's likely further to the center of the Kinsey scale than he would like to admit, and is compensating for it.
![]() 06/22/2016 at 18:44 |
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Well, I dunno.. color me conflicted. I have zero issues with gays and really don’t care what/how they live their life. However I’m really tired of is the neverending parades and whatnot, just get on with your life.
![]() 06/22/2016 at 18:45 |
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The GOP and conservatives have been combining the votes of the rich with those of idiots, bigots, and sociopaths to win elections since the late 50s. No less than Rod Serling warned them in 1964. That this continued behavior has taught the bigots that they don’t have to use their inside voices anymore should surprise no one. The inmates have taken over the asylum.
![]() 06/22/2016 at 18:50 |
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Isn’t it the same that happened in the 1900's with gender equality and woman not being able to vote? Today it’s the same but people wanting to get married and not get looked down because of their sex orientation.
![]() 06/22/2016 at 18:52 |
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Repeat it
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Blah blah trannys
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Simply, if the LGBT subset of our population had the same rights and respect as the hetero population there wouldn’t be a pride movement. Last time I checked no one was trying to take away my right to marry the person I love or is forcing me to pee in a certain bathroom. It also seems to me that folks that gay bash are very insecure about their own sexuality.
![]() 06/22/2016 at 19:01 |
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That is unfortunate that you have to work with someone like that. Tell them to go travel a bit.
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Sounds like a gem and the type of person I avoid talking to because they are stealing someone worthwhile’s air while talking.
![]() 06/22/2016 at 19:05 |
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I stayed at the hotel there, the bar is great!! I dont get it, like most educated people i assume... i was never tought as a child to hate people different than me, or that i was different from anyone else for that matter..its like people dont have enough problems of their own. Now they have to go find other stuff to be angry about....because we just have that much extra energy to expend on other peoples personal lives!!! Who fucking cares....i wish i had the time and energy to find gay people upsetting. Instead, i dont care.
![]() 06/22/2016 at 19:09 |
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Have had to deal with he same from my father in law, I’m tempted to put a pride sticker on my truck just to piss him off. Then again I antagonizing the in laws puts my wife in the middle so that’s not fair to her.
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All this talk of things being shoved down throats...
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(Insert George Takei “oh my” here... Thanks kinja)
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“It also seems to me that folks that gay bash are very insecure about their own sexuality.
I grew up in the south and used to hear a lot of gay bashing. For a long time, I thought it was because the guys doing the bashing were afraid that gays wanted to have sex with them. Now that I’m older, I realized that it’s actually because the bashers [(possibly:) are afraid they/(possibly:) just:] want to have sex with the guys.
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Next time you go - Kramerbooks and Afterwards - bookstore, great food and drink, nice people, just off the circle. And Red Sea, for Ethiopian food. In Adams Morgan. I grew up in DC and MD.
![]() 06/22/2016 at 19:23 |
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Oh, and if you want to drop some coin and impress your significant other - The Tabard Inn on N Street. At least go for dinner - it’s a really nice place.
![]() 06/22/2016 at 19:30 |
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I guess we should all vote democrat then. Oh wait a minute....
![]() 06/22/2016 at 19:31 |
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Isn’t every day straight pride day?
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I’d *love* to get along with my life as soon as fuckers quit murdering us and the politicians offering cheap “thoughts and prayers” admit their hand in demonizing, marginalizing, and criminalizing the LGBT+ community.
Sorry if you’ve been inconvenienced by parade routes, I’ll talk to the 1/8th Irish Americans about toning down St. Paddy’s too.
![]() 06/22/2016 at 19:33 |
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Crazy that is even accepted in your workplace. That person could be shit canned at my job especially if it is a regular occurrence. I feel like when people get all preachy with certain things it’s because they don’t want people to know they are into it. Sort of like people who are anti porn but actually do watch porn and don’t want others to know so they rant on and on about how disgusting they think it is. Ask him if he's in denial.
![]() 06/22/2016 at 19:35 |
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Mmm... Trannies...
![]() 06/22/2016 at 19:37 |
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Put it on HIS car. And make it the stickers that are extra hard to remove because they peel off in pieces and leave tons and tons of residue! Haha
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Probably where the talk about things being shoved down his throat is coming from.
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Kinda sad that people others for such stupid reasons. Especially since there are plenty of good, logical reasons to hate other people.
![]() 06/22/2016 at 19:47 |
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The answer is always Depeche Mode.
![]() 06/22/2016 at 19:56 |
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Did you remark that it’s rather suspicious an ostensibly straight man such as himself seems so fascinated by gay people?
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Does once a year count as never ending?
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I feel dirty. Can you... can you make them spin?
![]() 06/22/2016 at 20:11 |
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Gotta lube’m up first
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You have stupid coworkers too huh. I have one who is moving neighborhoods because there’s too many minorities in his current one.
He told me this. And uh, I am not white. I don’t think he knows.
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Are you bothered by every single parade?
![]() 06/22/2016 at 20:43 |
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Actually, there are straight pride shirts. There's a whole company
![]() 06/22/2016 at 20:46 |
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I guess his google-fu was weak!
![]() 06/22/2016 at 20:54 |
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I just googled straight pride apparel and a ton of stuff came up including several news stories over controversy with straight pride shirts
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My cousin is a corporate chef for jose garcas, i think thats the name, last time i was down we went to his tapas place and some other place that had a shitload of whiskeys... amazing food and drink all over that town!!
![]() 06/22/2016 at 22:36 |
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Sign up for the best - and ask the guy about Tabard.
![]() 06/23/2016 at 06:10 |
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They’re not being allowed to just get on with their lives. That’s the whole point.
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I think it’s called Cabella’s
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